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This article is part of a serie of articles related to the relation between some Gaijin in Japan and some Japanese girls. So I invite you to read the second article about the Japanese girls who “hunt” Gaijin men, by clicking here.
Today I’ll talk about a class of persons in Japan. A category of men that goes to Japan to have “fun”: some Japanese girls hunters.
Japanese girls’ hunters are men of foreign origin whom go to Japan for a single purpose: dredge a maximum of Japanese women, having sex with them and move on to another girl. These are simple predators. But why do these people have so much success, or not?
Why Japanese women like Western men:
For many Japanese, but not all, Westerners are Ikemen. “Ikemen” in Japanese means “Handsome”. Why?
What pleases these girls is the exoticism from Western men. They do not have slanted eyes, do not have the same measurements (they are taller, have the hair of another color, same for the eyes, …). Finally they have mastered a foreign language on a native level, that many Japanese do not know.
Add to that another factor: the Japanese who like western love the fact they don’t have the Japanese culture rooted in them. As I explain in my article on the Gaijin Complex, these girls do not want to get into the stereotypes of Japanese society: the “submissive” woman who stays at home. They want freedom and be with a man who will treat her like a woman and be a true gentleman. You can also read my article about the stereotypes on the Japanese to get an idea.
Why Western men love the Japanese girls:
Let us abreast of these men who are lovers of Japanese women. This category is often equated with Japan Fetish or Asian Fetish. These are people who love only those of Japanese or Asian origins. These people assume that only a Japanese or Asian may be beautiful and satisfying. Why?
These men feel valued in the presence of Japanese girls, in general. They feel they are loved, valued and loved. Very often they can not feel it at home, in their home countries because they are only one person among many others. But in Japan it’s different. There is a low rate compared to foreign local. They are the symbol of exoticism and this attracts. Besides if you are careful in the streets of Japan, it is not uncommon to see a Western man, not necessarily beautiful as Western values, being a couple with a beautiful Japanese.
Finally, a certain fact is that many Western men think that Japanese girls are easy and submissive. We, very often have the visions in the West of the Japanese girl who stays home, takes care of home and who obeys in all respects to her husband. Many Western men fantasize about that. Besides, I recommend you to read the book Sex and the Japanese for you to see for yourself that the Japanese girls are not easy or they are not necessarily submissive.
Who are these Japanese girls hunters:
When you relate all the factors above, you can begin to understand why some Western men come to Japan. These people are the famous Japanese girls hunters: the men who come to Japan just to flirt, have sex and have fun.
These people feel strong, virile, all-powerful. They think they are beautiful, pleasant and irresistible. It’s just the context that gives them these opportunities. Because ultimately they have no stable relationship, may have no great love and relationships are bound to have no future.
They think Japanese girls are disposable pieces of meat. They consume and move on. They respect no one and gives a bad image of foreigners in Japan. How many Japanese believe that all foreigners are Japanese girls hunters? Much, and why? Because of these men.
If you want to see for yourself what is a hunter of Japanese girls, you just go in neighborhoods notorious for this, such as Roppongi in Tokyo, foreigners’ quarter where nightclubs are full of ‘Western men chasing Japanese women in need of Gaijin and japanese girls hunting foreign men.
Here is the portrait of a Japanese girls hunter:
Recently on a French blog of a traveler in Japan, a portrait of a Japanese girls hunter was conducted through a comic. It was called the YAMAINU, which means the jackal in Japanese. It is the typical profile of the Japanese grils hunter. A boy who thinks he is irresistible and that all Japanese girls love him. A man who thinks all Japanese girls are easy and having fun with them and never respect them.
I suggest a more serious description of this profile. I put myself in his skin, at least I try, and I deliver his speech. All information below are not his personal information. They have been changed to preserve his identity.
“Hello, my name is Nico.I am a French man, 29 years old. There one year of that I left France for the first time in my life. For the first time in my life I left my home and I discovered the world. I have known anything other than my hometown before. I am a person who does not trust himself. When I arrived in Japan, I was a stranger among the other. My hair color, blonde, and my eyes gave me an advantage among young Japanese women in search of exoticism.
After a few weeks there, I realized that I could hit on a lot of Japanese girls. I had great success with these young ladies and that I could have as much sex as I wanted. In Japan, I felt I was a man, I felt myself to be someone. Why? Because girls look at me, because I’m different and I am valued. In France, I am weak, I have no confidence in myself, I am nobody and no girl is interested in me because I am not different from other French guys there.
Given the situation, I decided to return to Japan for several years because I’m doing well here and it’s good for my ego. So I returned to Tokyo to dredge, having sex with ten of girls and flatter my ego. “
As you will understand, this person is a person weak in his home country who came to Japan and to have corrected his ego. Seeing that he could be more important, he came back and decided to have fun without complying with the girls.
This is the typical profile of the Japanese girls hunter, in general. Still, they believe themselves interesting, beautiful, irresistible and the best. They play on their success with Japanese girls and continues to talk about them like this it was a feat.
And you, what do you think of such people? Have you met one?